Merry Kris Children Stories for Adults

The Basketball and the Tea Cup

            Out of many a lovely cup have I sipped upon a soothing bit of tea.  Sometimes just the ceremony of getting out the good china cups and a nice china tea pot is relaxing.  Boil the water, heat the pot, insert the type of tea desired; set the tea cups on the tray, include the teaspoons, slice some lemons; place the linen napkins, put the honey on the side, and wait until the tea is steeped to the right strength.  It’s time to find a quiet spot to curl up or perhaps it’s time to share a few precious moments with a good friend.  My Great Aunt Charlotte left me her collection of English tea cups.  There are no two alike.  Each has a beautiful floral painting on both the saucer and the cup.  China tea cups are fragile and must be handled with care so as not to break them.  They were made for just that purpose—a cup of tea.

            Out in the garage, on the other hand, we have a rough and ready basketball.  Ken and Jamie have spent several sunny afternoons playing basketball.  Ken taught Jamie how to dribble a basketball.  Bounce, bounce, bounce the ball goes on the concrete.  She pauses for the shot and flings the ball into the air hitting the backboard!  The ball slides neatly through the net only to be caught and bounced steadily round the court as the next person prepares for his shot.  Basketballs were meant to be bounced on hard floors.  That’s their purpose.  That’s what they were made for.

            Like basketballs and tea cups God made each of us for a specific purpose.  We would no more try to pour tea onto a basketball and serve it than we would bounce a fine china teacup on a concrete slab under a basketball hoop.  So why is it that we aren’t as attentive to the purpose that God has created for us?  Is it possible that we get caught up in maintaining a lifestyle for the sake of this world instead of seeking that which God has created us to do?  Each of us has been given special abilities and talents, unique gifts from God, especially for our personal use in our relationship with others.  It says in the first book of Peter,

“God has given each of you some special abilities; be sure to use them to help one another, passing on to others God’s many kinds of blessings,” I Peter 4:10

Yes, it seems to me that when I give my attention to becoming what God intended me to be instead of trying to be something or someone else; I’m less likely to feel broken—like a teacup smashed on concrete.  I’m more likely to smile knowing that I am being used for the purpose God created me to be.  In this there is peace. 

Merry Kris Demske

What Does God Have to do with Bazooka Bubble Gum?

    
Many years ago, when I was a child, I remember peddling my bicycle to the local general store.  Excitedly entering the door with my hand clutching some small change, I would breathlessly race over to the old wooden check out counter and gaze at the delicious candy treasures gleaming colorfully in their shiny wrappers like an endless field of bright poppies in summertime.

     At that time one of my favorite treats was Bazooka bubble gum.  It cost only a penny.  In fact, all the candy behind the counter could be purchased for a penny.  But Bazooka bubble gum was one of my favorites.  Within every package was more than the promise of a tasty chew!  As I opened the wrapper and popped the pink square into my mouth, there would be burst of juicy sweetness.  The more I chewed on that gum, the more it was being prepared to make great bubbles!  Hence, we get the name bubble gum.

     The pleasure did not stop there, however.  For such a small investment I received a comic to read—a short story.  Finally, there was always the lure to save the wrappers!  In tiny print was the address to send away for a catalog full of treasures for which one could trade the wrappers.

    You may ask, “What does all this have to do with God?”  Well, as I consider that wonderful memory of Bazooka bubble gum, I am taken by the similarities in it to God’s Word and the promise it holds for us.  When I feed on God’s Word, oftentimes it fills me with sweet bursts of revelation.  The longer I chew on God’s Word the more it “expands”, like bubbles, in my understanding of His great love for us and His plan for our lives.

     As I looked forward to the short comic in the Bazooka wrapper, so I look forward far more to the reading of Christ’s short parables, to the brief yet poignant messages of Proverbs, or to the grounding depth of heartfelt love God conveys to me even in one short sentence.  “For the Lord is good; his steadfast love endures forever, and his faithfulness to all generations.”  Psalm 100:5.  Wow!  What a promise!

     Finally, in Matthew 6:19-21, Jesus tells us:

Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust consume and where thieves break in and steal; but store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consumes and where thieves do not break in and steal.  For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

When I was a child, I thought like a child.  Storing up bubble gum wrappers for a prize that could then be sent for from a far away place was a wonderful thing on which to hope.

            Today, I read God’s Word and place my hope in the Lord.  I seek to place treasures in heaven, hoping one day to be with my Savior there.  When I am loving God and honoring his commandments and when I am in a righteous relationship with my neighbor I am doing that which is pleasing to God.  I store up treasures by these.

            I haven’t had a piece of Bazooka bubble gum in many years.  Perhaps, there are no longer comics and prizes for which one can send away.  But I have Christ and I have the Word, so I will always have wonderful sweet bursts of love and revelation.  I thank the Lord, that He is always there with me, always desiring to stretch my heart, my mind, and my soul just like bubble gum, so that I might be in a closer relationship with Him.


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The Invitation - RSVP

Matthew Chapter 22:2-6: The kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who gave a wedding banquet for his son.  He sent his slaves to call those who had been invited to the wedding banquet, but they would not come.  Again he sent other slaves, saying, “Tell those who have been invited: Look, I have prepared my dinner, my oxen and my fat calves have been slaughtered, and everything is ready; come to the wedding banquet.  But they made light of it and went away, one to his farm, another to his business, while the rest seized his slaves, mistreated them, and killed them.

 

Psalm 119:9-12: How can young people keep their way pure?  By guarding it according to your word.  With my whole heart I seek you; do not let me stray from your commandments.  I treasure your word in my heart, so that I may not sin against you.  Blessed are you, O Lord; teach me your statutes.

             On June 23rd and 24th we moved.  As of today, August 11th, I still feel as if we are moving.  Things are not settled yet.  Moving, however, has provided many opportunities to seek my Lord’s guidance and to delight in His wisdom and blessings. 

            One such blessing occurred a few days ago while I was praying early in the morning.  What came to mind was one of the things I had moved.  For years I have kept the documents I have received.  I have letters, Christmas cards, invitations to parties and weddings, funeral notices, thank you notes and a myriad of other correspondence.  Sometimes I find myself wondering why I continue to keep letters that were written to me in the early 70s.  Are the letters, which I have that my Grandmothers wrote and their siblings wrote to them in the 20’s, 30’s, 40’s, and 50’s of any significance?  Will copies of the correspondence written by my ancestors in the 1800s while they were traveling by ship to North America mean anything to anyone a hundred years from now?

            What purpose does correspondence have?  As I reflect on the various forms of writing I have received, I begin to see the path along which my family and I have traveled.  I am able to catch glimpses of history, learn the names of family members, and begin to understand some of the strengths they had as well as their failings.  I can see some of the pitfalls that happened to them.  I experience their joy in celebrations and their sadness when a loved one passed away or was severely injured.  Sometimes there are windows of understanding into the simple patterns of daily living.  Then on another page I read the advice of someone being given to another.  Within these various forms of correspondence there is encouragement, love, hope, sadness, joy, anger, confusion, steadfastness, promise, and many other expressions of being.

            As I consider my day-to-day activities, I realize that correspondence plays a key part.  I receive e-mails, letters, invitations, bills, advertisements, and notices.  I read them, because I know that they provide me key information for daily living.  They’re important!

            Now consider, does our God not do the same for us?  It is called the Word.  Do I look forward with anticipation to read what God has sent me?  There are invitations; there is history; there are words of guidance, love and so much more!  These words are the most important communications I will ever receive.  Yet, do I treat them that way or am I ambivalent?  Am I more excited to get e-mail from a friend than I am to pick up the Word of God and read His letter to me?  It’s true, the daily correspondence I receive makes a difference in my life.  Obviously, I enjoy receiving it, because I save it and read it years later.  But where have I put my priorities?  That can only be answered by considering how much time I spend on each form of communication.  This revelation was certainly a wake up call to me to re-examine my commitments and my priorities.  If I love God, if I love His son, Jesus, do my actions show that?  Do I say, “I can’t wait to read this?  It’s a letter to me from God!  It’s His Word that really matters.  He’s talking to me.  He has something I really need to hear!”


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